
Most Americans will agree that Thanksgiving is about family gathering for the thanksgiving meal with a lot of focus on the turkey, the sides, and desert. Post dinner and it’s time for football, not the playing kind but the best kind where – Monday quarterbacking happens – from the couch. But there are a few who start the day with a Turkey trot or a derivative thereof so they can justify the calorie overload that’s coming later that day and even weekend in some cases because the truth is we’re sometimes still having thanksgiving leftovers come Sunday.
But there is a way to not let this American tradition erase your resolutions that have been moving along without much disturbance for the most part. There is a way to stand strong and run the race you decided on January 1st of this year and it doesn’t involve ditching thanksgiving or fasting turkey and all the trimmings or the dessert table. Too many times we move to extremes when we feel cornered but what if the solution is right in the middle. Yes, what if the secret, a secret any longer, lies in moderation. I’ve heard so many people take sides on the issue of what their favorites are and we’re all entitled to have some or the other but what really needs to motivate our eating habits on this day and subsequent weekend is our commitment to healthy living every other day of the year.
So here’s my take on what this day and season could look like that won’t leave you feeling guilty or cheated. Plan ahead to begin your day with some sort of exercise: a walk, run, ride, workout – always better with friends. Then get involved in the food preparation. Staying actively involved in the meal prep will stimulate your senses and keep you on the move and not just idiling and more prone to eating or snacking. Be sure to stay hydrated and it’s safe to do some taste tests and even have a small amount for an in-between meal so you are satiated and not running on empty. Have a plan for your thanksgiving plate including your desert option for the family gathering part of your day. I’m willing to bet that after eating you won’t be much into seconds with all sensory overload from your exposure to all the prepping. My final recommendation is try not to have too late of a night as you’ll likely be tired and have less self control and so be more apt to snack. Stay committed to having a restful night by keeping moderate bedtime hours so that you can awake early and energized. Early morning exercise the morning after is also a good way to keep you committed to making healthy decisions for the rest of the weekend. As you move through the weekend, always remember that small plates go a long way to help with portion sizing and in keeping you happy and healthy. Pay attention to your plate size and keep yourself active around or outside the home and away from the kitchen. It is always better to manage your expectations and habits rather than have to deal with the fall out. Stay healthy and be well my friends.🙏🏼

February brings to mind: hearts and flowers, and hugs and kisses, and endless mushiness. Cute and necessary I think, but ideally it’s how we should live everyday, receiving and sharing love with those in our lives and those we have the opportunity to meet. Before and beyond that though is the notion of loving ourselves. Just what does that mean anyway. Aside from pampering oneself and giving others the permission to treat us with dignity and respect, how can we engender love for ourselves that has a multiplying effect that extends beyond us to make a lasting impact on our world? I posit that how we treat and care for our bodies, minds, and spirits speaks a helluva lot more to how we care about ourselves and in turn determines whether we can truly care for others.





