The Peaches & Cream of my Running Life

After much ado about everything, I’m back to running in peachy Georgia! I moved down in early February of this year to help care for my 92-year-old mom. And just like that it’s been 9 months of life in the suburbs already! Time sure flies whether you’re having fun or not. To be fair, it hasn’t all been “unfun” but some time over the past ten years, I’ve discovered that I’m a city girl who likes to visit the country and not the other way around. Anyway, all water under the bridge as I’m here and determined to make the most of it. But it’s wild how seasons change and while you’re in one, more often than not, you can’t anticipate what’s to come. I always feel like if I know ahead of time, like have a little snippit into tomorrow, I can better prepare. Do you get what I mean? Hmm… if you think no, you’re right. I know that’s not true. There’s a reason God is God and I am not. I have to trust Him with the future and settle for today. Yet, taking things one day at a time is so contrary to my do-it-all or do-as-much-as-possible mindset. And so, I’m learning the pace of grace – grace for myself and for others. Yours truly is attending the school of life.

That being said, there are some perks to the peachy state. One of the two things I like (majorly) about being back is the warmer weather and the proximity to my family. I’m grateful to support them and in turn receive their support. Life transitions can be unsettling and induce all sorts of anxious thoughts if you can’t manage your expectations and adopt the right perspective. I’m grateful each day I get to choose to see the blessings all around me and embrace this season and all it brings, albeit sometimes a bit reluctantly – some days are tough y’all! In other good news on the proximity-to-family front, we’re having our first baby in the family in a few days! Obviously, yours truly is very excited, and pleased to be adopting the grand name of Loli to the babe. Huge smile and winks all around, it couldn’t have happened at a better time! Who knew but God. Serendipity or not, a baby certainly is the cream on top.

Peaches, check. Cream check. Now running, I’ve been thinking and running and running while thinking and it’s awesome the epiphanies that can be ushered in by a cooling breeze. It also helps that Autumn is the perfect season for seeing beauty form from the mundane. I cannot overlook the falling leaves, the vibrant colors, the sunshine caresses instead of burns, and the sudden descent of dusk amidst shorter days. This always highlights the seasonal nature of life to me, which makes me grateful all over again that I get to run. Seasons come and go and changes and transitions happen no matter if we want them to or not, but running remains among my most treasured long-lasting gifts. Over the years, I’ve only been derailed by two injuries, thank God, and the setbacks then actually served to have me work on other things that needed developing. How’s that for perspective!Β  Lol, hindsight perspective anyway.

There are few things I’m certain of in this life, one is that God is in the details and another is that no matter where life takes me, just as long as I’m running, I’ll be ok. Until next week, I hope you’re running and I hope you’re ok too!

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Bow Bridge
@ Engineer’s Gate

It is a New York truism that Central Park is at its most gorgeous in Autumn. While Spring definitely has it’s charm, Summer is all get out beautiful, and winter can be a postcard perfect wonderland, Fall is by far my favorite in the park. I can’t put my finger on a singular thing but maybe it’s a combination: the riot of colors, the abundant foliage, the breathtaking views, the almost-there foot traffic, the near-perfect running temps, and the musical cacophony of the park’s residents. Autumn is everywhere in Central Park and for the above reasons, so am I.

Jackie Onassis Reservoir
Jackie Onassis Reservoir Running Path

Last week I took off on an impromptu run – the best kind – and can I just say.. wow. Mind you, I’ve made this park my running home, and I’ve been living in NYC for about 10 years now, so I’m not some starry eyed newbie. Still, it never gets old and gets me every time. Self confessed New Yorker that I am with a penchant for running all over this charming and gritty city, I am biased to Central Park. It is the epitome of an oasis in the desert and have served myself, thousands of New Yorkers, and millions of visitors over the years bringing respite, sanctuary, seclusion, nature, adventure, beauty, art, culture, and a host of other things that are quintessential New York to the world. I am just so stoked to have this as part of my New York life experience but more importantly as the catalyst for my running in this city. The park is where I started my 19-marathon running streak, that seems like ages ago now, and God’s willing there are a few more runs yet to explore here.

Running along the east side heading to 72nd Street
Along Cat Hill & heading to 72 St Transverse

Reminiscing aside, I must have been buoyed by that particular gorgeous Autumn day with its sights and sounds because I gleefully flew aka ran the 6-mile outer loop of the park, flitting in and out at various picturesque points to snap a quick shot or two of every which thing. It was a photo run, if there is such a thing, totally unorthodox in nature – pun intended – encompassing random yet popular, trivial yet wowing, basic yet catchy views. If Central Park was a person, it’s stealing shots of a person unbeknownst but really with that person knowing full well that people do it all the time. My run was littered with sudden stops, quickened pace, selfie poses, backtracking, off path jaunts, all the while happening in the early afternoon. I never run around midday unless it’s late Fall or winter as it’s the sunniest and least cold then and so it was the perfect running day. I wasn’t alone in this thinking as there were people everywhere. Seems there are many others that share my love for the park. It’s also the year of Covid-19, though you would never know it from inside this slice of heaven. In fact, you would be forgiven for forgetting, the only thing contagious there being the jovial and benevolent spirit of park goers. So for just about 2 hours, I ditched the mask, though I maintained social distance, and turned off the panic, noise, grit, and confusion of the outside world to just bask in the explosion of nature in the best place in my world right there and then.

Just about TCS Nyc Marathon Finish Line
Unnamed Rustic Bridge @ Southwest Reservoir

Pictures sometimes can’t really do justice to the reality but oftentimes it’s the best reminder we have and captures a moment in time that we’ll never get back. No matter how many times I’ve seen these, I never get tired of the views. Central Park is really my favorite place to be.

The Mall, William Shakespeare, & a Horse drawn Carriage

Fall In Love with Running this Fall

imageI am the eternal optimist. Let me tell you right off that I haven’t always been this way; times past, I have been quite the critique and complainer, what some people call.. high-maintenance, but a couple of years ago I made an important discovery.. my Aha moment if you will. I figured life is full of disappointments and dread but juxtaposed to this is its wonderful surprises and beautiful things.. depends on who’s looking and from where; remember my “perspective is everything” mantra? You see, battling disappointments can be a consuming past-time, who has time for that, so I decided to lean on the side of beautiful things as I really don’t have time for much else. Fast forward today and finding out yesterday that I missed the cut off 1:02 under qualifying mark for Boston 2015 by 22 seconds.

After the initial dread and tears which lasted a few minutes, I cannot allow for days as others who’ve described their past experiences, I smiled. Because I’m proud of me. Proud that I qualified within my first year of trying and that I came so close. While I’m in solidarity with the 1,946 other qualifiers who didn’t get in, I have so much hope for next year. Now to be honest, it is no easy feat to qualify: the sacrifice, commitment and hard work, that went into doing so is a testament to running excellence and is reason enough to be proud of your achievement. For some though, it might be impossible to do so again.. It is for those that my heart goes out; that you will never know the reward of your effort. May it be enough that you qualified. For others like myself, we know that runners never quit. It is the indelible spirit that unifies us, that we will train harder, run faster, do better and we will RUN BOSTON.

So tears aside, the race goes on and there are some great races all over the country to choose from if you’re going ahead with trying for Boston 2016 right away. Just so you know, the qualifying window opened last week, so all qualifying races that you run from here on until next year can count. I’m playing around with ideas such as Philly, New Jersey, Marine Corps DC or Anthem Richmond Marathon; all in beautiful Fall and with good courses to do a fast time. Whichever you choose, don’t forget to make sure it’s a qualifier.

The best things about running in the Fall season is nature and its transforming beauty. I heart its colorful changes, musicality and cool sunshine. And I get to do it from beautiful New York, oftentimes, in lovely Central Park. Therefore, it was only fitting that I ushered in the season with a 12 mile exhilarating run there two days ago. I felt so buoyant, so hopeful, so filled with wonder then and even now. I hold on to that, not allowing the disappointment of yesterday to steal my joy in today and in the promise of some beautiful Fall runs.

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